WOW!!!!  Found out 2 more friends are now going through separations or divorces!!!  And they are men!  Crazy!!!  I never once thought about divorce when I got married!  It amazes me how things happen in life!  So glad God is in my life and I can trust in him knowing that he has a plan for me and my baby girl!!  If I'm ever blessed enough to get married again and have another chance at a family, I have learned many valuable lessons and will do ALL I can do to provide happiness, encouragement, support and understanding.....cause it's all that and more!!!!  It's not one sided and it takes both to destroy a marriage!  And it takes BOTH to make a marriage!  And "YES" I said blessed!  Cause it's a blessing to have someone to spend the rest of your life with and have a family!!!!  So don't be soured and become a "man/women" hater, there are some good ones left, they may be damaged a bit, but if you ever find that special someone, Love can be a beautiful thing...............Again!