Tuesday, June 26, 2012

Happy Tuesday!  It's going much better than yesterday!  Nothing better than starting the day off on the wrong foot with your mother!  I went to the Ranger game on Sunday and when I dropped Tay off at my mom's I forgot her night meds!  I went by the store and picked up some Benedryl, knowing it would be ok for it to be given to help her sleep!  My mom was upset at me for forgetting the meds.  I offered my key for her to get them, she lives about 12 miles from me, but she didn't want to!  I felt bad and text several times to check on Tay and she text saying she was fine.  Yesterday on the way to pick her up and take her to VBS, mom said she was up til 2am.  I asked why, she said she slept til 6pm the day before!  Well, at that point I was upset.  Meds or not, if a kid, or adult for that matter, sleeps til 6pm they are not going to go to bed at their regular bedtime.  So, at that point I was upset!  I felt like she was putting the blame on me for Tay not sleeping.  So I had to leave work several times to get Tay where she needed to be yesterday, which caused me to miss work and find a sub for my class!  I will admit, I was hard headed and could have resolved all of this, but I wasn't going to give in!  All is well today, but I should know better than to argue with my mom.  It's like arguing with your spouse........your not going to win!!!  Don't get me wrong, I love my mom with all my heart and I wouldn't make it through each week with out her help with Tay!  This was a time I should have kept my mouth shut and and went on about my day and it would all pass!  I try to approach most things these days with that outlook! Some things are not worth getting upset over or upsetting others.  We waist too much time in our lives being angry or upset with others as well as ourselves over things that we won't remember later on anyway!  So take things people say or do with a grain of salt!  Sometimes they don't realize they say it anyway!

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